Anonymous asked:
I like this guy and he says he likes me but his friends tell me he only wants me for sex. He has a bit of a rep for that n I really like him but I don't wanna give myself to him, I'm not ready. And his friend is all over me one day then hooks up with my friend the next day and I kind of like him aswell. He's a bit of a player and I don't know what to do with either of them :S help??

aw anon,
okay this is what I think you should do: seeing as the guy you really like has a rep for being a player, I think you should get to know him and maybe have a thing but take it slow, do not have sex until you are completely sure he is a nice guy that will treat you well and won’t just leave you.

And with the other guy you sort of like I tbink you should leave him be maybe be friends with him and see if he changes or likes you some time in the future, because it sounds like he can’t make up his mind and if he is all over you one day and some one else the next then you can’t be sure he likes you and doesn’t just want sex, he’s sounds unpredictable and like he can’t make his mind up so I’d maybe steer clear apt him, because he could hurt you,

So yeah I think you should just step back and rationally think and take it slow, don’t do anything you don’t want too and don’t let guys use you for sex or pressure you into it.

Hope I helped anon, goodluck